It started some time in June 2009, I had already been on the road for three months when my dad suggested to join me for a few weeks. My older sister (Dasha) was also looking to join us for some time. Dad wanted to travel somewhere in Europe, Dasha didn't want to go somewhere she'd been before. We eventually decided on Turkey and Egypt via Northern Cyprus and Southern Cyprus as we didn't have time for Syria and Jordan.
My dad flew in from Australia, I flew in from Latvia three hours later. Dasha joined us four days later.
Was it tough to travel together with family? Sure, we had fights. We had different styles of travelling, my dad was comfortable with just chilling out and relaxing all day. My sister does research on countries before she arrives, plans out a full itinerary that involves seeing EVERYTHING and sleeping on buses between destinations. I tend to just wing it and not rush anything, I love meeting people and discovering things that can't be put in any highlight itineraries, a chance encounter at a restaurant, seeing how people live their daily lives, the sort of things that are mundane back home, but fascinating when you travel.
The secret to making travel with family work, or for that matter, travelling with friends of differing mindsets is always compromise and being able to put yourself in their shoes. Dad would never offer a suggestion for something he wanted to do, but I found out quickly how much he loved boats and being taken around places. Guess what, in the trip we took no less than five boat trips (day trips, ferries and a felucca trip).
My dad had stepped so far out of his comfort zone, my sister and I convinced him to stay in hostel type accommodation, he once couchsurfed with us at Dasha's friend's place in Ankara, Turkey. He rode on ATVs (quadbikes), motorcycles, camels and horses.
He would hike with us for hours in Turkey, sleep on a felucca boat in Egypt, pull silly faces all the time and never complain about what we were doing.
My dad would always be keen to meet new people and always had them laughing and having fun. They always told us how much they loved my dad "Mr Alex", but my sister and I didn't pay any attention at the time, we just thought it normal to have a dad that's so easy going and who can make friends with so many people so easily.
My dad is a bigger IT geek than me, we always caught him using the internet, logging onto his workstation.
My dad's workstation was named Osiris, after the Egyptian god, any time he saw a carving or a statue of Osiris, his eyes would light up and he would make us take a photo of him. Dad, here's to you and Osiris.
Dad, I loved travelling with you so much and I want everyone in the world to see just how cool you are.
Never was dad prouder than when talking about the accomplishments of my sister and myself and you could tell how much he loved travelling with us, even if it wasn't in the style that he was accustomed to.
A lot of us take our family for granted and think we could never travel with them. My suggestion, do it, you'll get so much out of it.
Dad, you're my Alexander the Great and I love you so much. I can't wait to see you and travel with you again. My dad is my biggest blog fan (he always comments with the name ak).
How do your family travel stories compare? Do you enjoy travelling with your family? Would you travel with your parents?













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